We were blessed to have Beverly Hunter facilitate Visioncircles for us in February. One of our more intriguing activities was a discussion on the difference between visualization and imagination. Some wanted to share definitive answers. Others countered with different reasoning. Still others sat back and listened intently. I was a listener. While Beverly and I drove home that evening she asked my perspective. Aaaahhh, that was the point. Vision is about perception and perspective. We each have our own. Yes, I had my own ideas. In preparing to give birth, most things took on the metaphor of birth and this was no exception.
C-section birth
With my first-born Nathan, there were no familiar experiences on which to attach birth since I’d never even had stitches in a hospital setting. I read books and imagined how I would handle the birth experience. With my second child, I could recall physically, emotionally and mentally the experience of the first. I visualized what would be similar and different with Aaron, birth number two. As we approached birth number three, I imagined the new possibilities gained from Brain Gym®, Educational Kinesiology and Touch for Health as well as visualized positive outcomes and experiences. Leah Marie decided to enter the world via C-section, which truly tested the balances we’d done in preparation for her arrival. We were able to remain focused, centered and cognizant in the uncertainty of the unknown. Even the unexpected surgical twist in our birth path turned out to be positive. Believing there is a reason for every event; we truly appreciate Brain Gym & reap its benefits daily.
And so it goes. In our wonderful Educational Kinesiology field we have many opportunities to visualize, imagine and birth. Every balance we complete, whether with ourselves or as a facilitator, is a birth of new possibilities and new potential. To begin the balance process, we visualize and imagine the goal since it is not something already acquired. As in real birth, the laboring process of goal setting can be the longest part of the process. Once we set the goal and define the edge of comfort, we are ready to move forward and make change.
Corporate metaphor of birth
The Foundation itself is going through birthing pains as it grows. We are each a piece of the stretching and laboring process. How can we best support our organization as it labors away? Losing ourselves in negative complaints is like being in non-progressive labor. A drastic step (like a C-section) then flits through minds. Offering suggestions, breathing deeply and practicing patience are ways to support new birth.
client metaphor of birth
As facilitators and consultants, it is not our job to always have or give the answers. Sometimes we simply offer our presence, our undivided attention, the same as a coach does with a woman in labor. Sometimes suggestions are welcome, at which point we draw out what exactly is desired. It isn’t always an end to a means; it may be a process of self-discovery on the end of the receiver, the giver or both.
Whether you visualize or imagine, know your support is welcome. Just as a plant grows with tender loving care so do organizations and individuals. Thanks to each of you for tending our garden of Edu-K in MN, the US, North America and the World.
